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The management of Saint Mary International Adoptions wanted to acquire information that would help them serve its parents more effectively. The objective for this research is for management to gain a better understanding of the adoptive parents by identifying their primary concerns before, during, and after the adoption process.
This study was selected from a convenience sample meaning that participants were not selected using some sort of random process. A random sample would not have worked because feedback was sought from those who were adoptive parents and had gone through the process, thereby being able to provide information about the international adoption process, as desired for the purpose of the study.
Participants for the quantitative study were selected from the agency’s existing clients. An agency database of its clients from the past 3 years was selected. Participants who had dealings with the agency previous to those 3 years were not desired because their feedback might have been outdated or even irrelevant to the current conditions. The database selected consisted of 58 families. These families included the agency’s most recent graduates from the process and those who were still in process. Of the 58 possible responses, 24 participants replied.
The questionnaire developed consisted of 9 questions, 3 of which were open ended and 6 were close ended. An Open Ended Questions is one that the respondents answer in their own words. A closed ended question is likely some kind of multiple choice or ranking questions, where participants choose from a set of existing answers. The questionnaire was anonymous.
Statistical software (SPSS) was used for any such calculations. Graphs and tables which indicate the findings were prepared in Excel in order to enhance user friendliness.
Data Analysis Findings.
The findings indicated that the concerns of the parents can be split into two major stages. These stages can be explained most simply by “before” and “after”.
The data indicated that the parents deal with different types of concerns at these different stages. Here is a visual summarization of these findings and the primary concerns identified at each stage. Each stage and concern will be broken down in detail following these illustrations.
“The before” stage includes the concerns that parents experience as they are struggling with the decision whether adoption is right for them. The three primary concerns at this stage were identified to include issues such as: Expense; Bonding; and Health of Child. Of the 24 respondents, 22 responses were given at the survey’s first open ended question which asked respondents to identify the “biggest concerns as you were deciding whether adopting is right for you”. Because this was an open ended question, coding for the following graphical illustration included grouping of the responses into categories. The data showed the following:
These findings indicate that 57% of all respondents list “Expense” as a concern, 38% list “Bonding” as a concern and 29% list “Health of Child”. The remaining categories included “Length of Time” and “Quality of Care in Orphanages” but the amount of these concerns were not frequent enough to be considered as one of the “primary/major concerns”. (To examine this further, later on in the survey, there is a close ended question which asks respondents to rank their concerns from “1” to “10” so that more depth could be added to this key concerns.
“The after” stage includes concerns that parents experience after they have committed to their decision to adopt. After (and if) the parents have committed to the decision of pursuing an international adoption, the concerns continue. Reducing these concerns is the objective of the agency and so, after collaboration between management and the researching team, it was agreed that sub-objectives of the larger objective would best be identified by splitting “the after” stage into 4 different categories which have their own “before” and “during” categories. These categories are visually illustrated below:
The “before” is the selection process. At this stage the parents are searching for information. They have not yet committed to a particular country or a particular agency. This sub-objective was aimed at providing management with information in regards to where this “before” stage starts for the adoptive parents. Having this information can help management develop marketing strategies that can be aligned appropriately in accordance with the parents’ thought process from the very beginning. The data showed that 64% select country first and 36% select agency first:
The “during” stage is after the PAPs have completed the paperwork and are ready to be travel abroad. The next set of questions attempts to gain feedback about the concerns of the PAPs during this stage. The question asked its parents to rank how concerned they were with each of the following: “Safety”, “Nervous about bonding”, “Expensive”, “Worried about cultural differences”. The same scale was used. The averages of all participants were calculated and are shown in this bar graph below:
As described earlier, the majority of the participants indicated that the two biggest concerns were Expense and Bonding. These findings confirm this yet again but also assign a ranking to each concern which showed that parents were slightly more concerned about “Bonding”, with an average of 7.0 (out of 10) than “Expense” which had an average of 6.5. Upon request of management, calculations were also made to see if there are any difference in the level of each concern between those who select country first and those who select agency first. The bar graph below pictures the following: the blue bars show the average level of concern of those who selected country first for both “bonding” and “expense”; and the green bar shows the same, except it is for those who selected agency first.
These findings indicate that there wasn’t a significant difference in the level of concern between the two groups in regards to “Bonding”. However, there was a significant difference in regards to “Expense”. Those who picked country first were more concerned with the expense as their average was 7.07 compared to 5.28 for those who selected agency first. This likely indicates that since those who picked country first and were more concerned about “Expense”, they were likely seeking a country whose overseas fees were less expensive relative to other countries.
Conclusion: Presented from Saint Mary International Adoptions’ Management (not from the research team that presented the rest of the information provided above)
Adoptive parents face a lot of decisions during their adoption process, starting as early as before even deciding whether to adopt.
Some of the key concerns include:
Bonding with the child
Health of the Child
Pick country or agency first?
There are no easy answers for any of these concerns, but as adoption professionals, it is important for us to get a deeper understanding of these issues so that we can position ourselves to provide a better service for our parents.
We hope this research was generally informative for all international adoptive parents to read as we think this data can apply to anyone, not just those using our agency, or adopting from Poland or Bulgaria.
However, if you like to know how we, as an agency, upon concluding this research have decided to handle these issues mentioned above, please contact us and we’ll be happy to tell you.
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